Shmiras Halashon

Ep. 265

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 263

24 Sep 2026 · 00:01:49

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Should you push a friend into a partnership or shidduch you'd never touch yourself? Rabbi Klapper closes with the opposite case: may you encourage someone to enter a partnership or a shidduch? It depends on what you know. If you're aware of something negative — something that would make you refuse the partnership or shidduch for yourself — then you should not encourage the interested party to get involved. There are situations where you may not tell someone about a shidduch already made; but actively urging a person into something you yourself would avoid because you know it's damaging is certainly something you must not do for anyone else. That completes our journey through hilchos rechilus — thank you for learning along. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 264

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 262

22 Sep 2026 · 00:02:07

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The partnership is already sealed — can you still warn Reuven that his partner is dishonest? Rabbi Klapper asks what to do once the partnership is already made. It depends, says the Chofetz Chaim, on how Reuven will react. If you know Reuven is careful — that he won't break up the partnership without consulting a Rav and will guard against any loss — then, with the other rules of to'eles in place, it's proper to tell him. But if telling Reuven will make him explode in anger, start a fight, and dissolve the partnership on his own without going derech halacha, you may not reveal it. Even then, since we still want to spare Reuven the loss, any other way of protecting him should be used — ideally after speaking with a Rav. Tomorrow: the opposite case — encouraging someone to join in. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 263

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 261

17 Sep 2026 · 00:02:38

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You know the man Reuven is about to partner with is careless with other people's money — do you speak up? Opening the final section of the sefer, Rabbi Klapper brings a common case: Reuven and Shimon are still working out a business partnership, and you know Shimon is negligent with other people's money while Reuven has no idea. Here you certainly should warn Reuven about his potential partner's history — provided all the rules of to'eles are met. But the Chofetz Chaim notes in the hago that a partner simply lacking money is no reason to warn anyone; if he's honest and hardworking, he may make an excellent partner. Adderaba, such a partner might even bring more bracha. The concern is dishonesty and negligence — something clearly negative — not poverty. But what if the partnership is already made? That's tomorrow. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 262

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 260

14 Sep 2026 · 00:01:53

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Do these halachos of rechilus protect every single person — no matter what they believe? Rabbi Klapper reaches the closing point of this section: everything said about hilchos lashon hara and rechilus concerns fellow Jews, as the pasuk says amisecha, your nation. But one who is a kofer b'Torah — who denies even a single letter, word, or drasha of the Torah — is not included in amisecha, and it can even be a mitzvah to expose such a person publicly. Yet the Chofetz Chaim warns we cannot decide this on our own. Before ever concluding that someone falls outside amisecha, a person must consult a Rav and be certain the person truly belongs in that category. Verify before you speak — and return tomorrow for the sefer's final examples. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 261

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 259

10 Sep 2026 · 00:02:17

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So what should the seller actually say when the disappointed buyer comes back? Rabbi Klapper shows the proper way to handle yesterday's case. Perhaps Shimon never knew Reuven wanted the item, and the seller simply couldn't wait — or even if Shimon pushed the sale through. Either way, when Reuven returns, the seller should name no names: just say somebody came and bought it. And if it's true, he should take the blame on himself — it was my fault. Since a seller may sell to whomever he wants, Reuven really has no basis to be upset, and if he is, he'll find the item elsewhere. This keeps the matter localized and internal, so it doesn't spread into something far worse. Keep it internal — and keep listening tomorrow. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 260

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 258

7 Sep 2026 · 00:02:51

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A buyer set an item aside and left for cash — but you sold it to the next customer. What do you tell him? Rabbi Klapper gives a vivid example: Reuven agrees to buy something at a garage sale and leaves to fetch the money; while he's gone, Shimon pays and takes it. When Reuven returns furious, the seller, not wanting to look bad, blames Shimon for forcing the sale. So many problems here: even if it were true that Shimon did it, saying so is still rechilus — the sale is done and revealing it helps no one, only breeding needless hatred. The seller shouldn't say it, and Reuven has no right to believe it either. Both sides must be careful: the seller not to speak, and the disappointed buyer not to accept the tale. How should the seller have handled it? Find out tomorrow. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 259

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 257

3 Sep 2026 · 00:02:37

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You voted no in a secret ballot — so can you tell the angry crowd it wasn't your doing? Rabbi Klapper brings the Chofetz Chaim's exception to yesterday's heter of saying I didn't do it. Picture a committee of seven voting privately; you voted no, but the majority voted yes, and the decision hurts people. When one of them asks how the committee voted yes, you may not say I didn't vote yes to distance yourself. The reason: the committee as a whole makes the decision. Just as in beis din, where a dayan who ruled in the minority is still bound to the ruling the court as a whole issues, so the dissenting committee member shares responsibility — and denying his part would itself be rechilus. Join us tomorrow for the next real-life example. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 258

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 256

31 Aug 2026 · 00:02:29

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Your car is parked right behind the one that was scraped — and the owner turns and asks you who did it. What now? Rabbi Klapper presents a fresh case: you saw who scraped a man's car, and your own car sits right behind his, making you a suspect. When he demands to know who caused the damage, may you name the culprit? Unless the halacha and all the rules of to'eles tell you it's the right thing to do, simply clearing your own name is not reason enough to reveal the guilty party. What you may do, says the Chofetz Chaim, is say I didn't do it — a person is allowed to exonerate himself without naming the one who's actually to blame. There's an exception to this rule coming — hear it next time. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 257

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 255

27 Aug 2026 · 00:02:14

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How many aveiros can hide inside one throwaway comment on the street? Rabbi Klapper counts the damage when one person tells another he was overcharged and the victim storms back to the store, sparking a fight over quality and refunds. In that single exchange a person can violate rechilus and lashon hara, lifnei iver of placing a stumbling block, and onaas devarim of hurting another's feelings — and it can ignite machlokes, sinah, and even worse. Our words carry enormous power: they can build connections between Jews or destroy them. Knowing the halachos beforehand is what lets us recognize that force before we wield it carelessly. Use your words wisely — and come back tomorrow to keep learning. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 256

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 254

24 Aug 2026 · 00:02:47

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You spot a friend's new purchase and blurt out that he paid way too much — are you helping or sinning? Rabbi Klapper describes what happens in real life when someone who doesn't know these halachos sees a friend's new purchase and cries, you got robbed, that's the most expensive store! He imagines he's helping, but he's stumbling into rechilus and lashon hara: he doesn't know the going rate, what extras came with it, how long ago it was bought, or the real price. Worse, he can't know what his friend will do with the information — it may just breed anger and hatred toward the store owner and lead to further aveiros. So many sins can flow from a conversation under five minutes. The rule, Rabbi Klapper stresses, is never say anything negative about anybody or anything. Internalize it by hearing it again — and again — tomorrow. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 255

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 253

20 Aug 2026 · 00:02:36

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What if he won't go to beis din at all, but takes the law into his own hands? Rabbi Klapper turns to the case where the one cheated may take matters into his own hands rather than going to beis din. Here the Chofetz Chaim adds three more safeguards on top of the earlier five rules of to'eles: you must have firsthand knowledge, not hearsay; there must be two people who would qualify as valid witnesses in beis din; and you must consider whether he'll grab back more than he's owed. Even if all eight rules are met, if he'll bypass beis din and settle it himself, you must not tell him. Better to bring the information to a Rav to find a proper way to recover the loss. Careful is the word of the day — return tomorrow for more. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 254

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 252

17 Aug 2026 · 00:02:08

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What if the person you warned marches back to the store and says you're the one who told him? Rabbi Klapper presents the last of these rules of to'eles: what happens when the person you told he was overcharged goes back to the store and announces that ploni said you cheated me. That itself would be rechilus about you. If he'd say only I heard I was overcharged, without naming his source, that's fine. But if he'll name you to the store owner, the Chofetz Chaim is unsure whether you may tell him in the first place — especially if you know he's the type who needs backup to prove he's right. Best, Rabbi Klapper says, to ask a Rav before speaking. Not sure how it applies? Ask your Rav — and listen again tomorrow. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 253

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 251

13 Aug 2026 · 00:02:51

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Before you tell your friend he was cheated, is there a way to fix it without speaking rechilus at all? Rabbi Klapper adds another rule of to'eles: whenever possible, go directly to the one who cheated rather than to the victim. Maybe the store owner doesn't even realize what he did or its halachic ramifications, and would return the money on his own — sparing you from speaking rechilus. More broadly, if there is any other way to reach the same goal without lashon hara, you must take it. The Chofetz Chaim brings the source from a Gemara in Sanhedrin: when Yehoshua asked Hashem who took from the cheirem of Yericho, Hashem essentially answered, am I a talebearer? Figure it out yourself — so Yehoshua used a goral instead. Think out of the box before you speak — and join us again tomorrow. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 252

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 250

10 Aug 2026 · 00:03:20

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You know for certain your friend was overcharged and could get his money back — so should you tell him? Rabbi Klapper continues the case where it's clear a person was cheated in a way that halacha lets him recover his money, and reviews the rules of to'eles for saying so. Don't exaggerate beyond the truth; have pure intentions to help the one cheated, not to harm the cheater; and know what he'll actually do with the information. If he'll go to beis din, tell him — but if he'll only stew in anger or act against halacha, or won't act at all, stay silent. In fact, the Chofetz Chaim says, tell him it was a good purchase and let him feel good, and this is not the falsehood the Torah warns against. Come back tomorrow as we keep unpacking the rules of to'eles. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 251

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 249

30 Jul 2026 · 00:02:52

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Mesirah Demands Highest Proof Allowing mesirah requires a far higher bar than ordinary Rechilus. Only clear firsthand knowledge, real toeles, no revenge, and prior rabbinic guidance can permit action. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 250

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 248

27 Jul 2026 · 00:02:18

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Revenge Is Not Justice Being harmed by a moser does not create a mitzvah to inform on him in return. Retaliation can become a far greater aveira than the original wrong. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 249

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 247

23 Jul 2026 · 00:02:15

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Clear Signs, Limited Action Even with dvarim hanikarim, the signs must be clear, firsthand, and useful. You may not spread the matter further or punish the person based on suspicion. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 248

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 246

20 Jul 2026 · 00:02:19

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When Signs Seem Clear Dvarim hanikarim matter only when what you saw clearly matches the claim and no tzad zechus remains. If another explanation exists, you may not accept it. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 247

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 245

16 Jul 2026 · 00:01:59

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Side Comments Still Count Even if Rechilus is mentioned only derech agav, as a side remark, it remains forbidden to believe. Casual delivery does not make gossip more trustworthy. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 246

Shalom Bayis Series 2 Trailer: The Essence of a Jewish Home

15 Jul 2026 · 00:01:29

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What if everything you thought you knew about marriage is only the surface? Season 2 of Shalom Bayis for Men goes deeper than practical tips. Building on the timeless teachings of Rav Chaim Friedlander zt"l, we return to the very beginning — the way Hashem created man and woman — to uncover what a marriage is actually meant to be. Why were we created as one being and then split apart? Why is a husband and wife's connection built entirely on chesed? And why did Hashem make men and women so fundamentally different? Over eight episodes, we'll explore how a home is the training ground where a person learns to truly give, why a woman's emotional world is a gift and not a flaw, and how understanding your wife's nature is the foundation of real Shalom Bayis. This is a season about the roots — the ideas that make everything else make sense. Subscribe now so you don't miss Episode 1. The journey to a deeper marriage starts here. Get the show on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/644HQbfnHosBd9vscuYxFy?si=cCPw4-r3SVel0nau3z895Q Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this series is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 245

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 244

13 Jul 2026 · 00:02:34

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No One Is Two Witnesses Today, no individual has the status of two witnesses for accepting Rechilus. Even from family or trusted people, you may be cautious, but not believe it. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 244

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 243

9 Jul 2026 · 00:02:16

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Trust Isn’t Unlimited Even great trustworthiness does not create a blanket heter to accept Rechilus. At most, it permits self-protection, never harming or embarrassing the other person. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 243

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 242

6 Jul 2026 · 00:03:01

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Belief Only for Protection Rechilus from an exceptionally trustworthy person may be believed only to protect yourself, and only if heard firsthand. It may never be spread further without need. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 242

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 241

2 Jul 2026 · 00:01:39

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Many Voices, Still Unproven Even if Rechilus comes from multiple people or becomes public rumor, you still may not accept it as truth. Halacha allows caution, not belief. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 241

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 240

29 Jun 2026 · 00:02:44

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Choose Dialogue Over Suspicion Dan l’kaf zechus changes everything. A calm, respectful conversation can turn suspicion and hatred into understanding, trust, and even love. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 240

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 239

25 Jun 2026 · 00:02:50

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One Rumor, Many Aveiros Accepting Rechilus from a non-Jew can trigger hatred, grudge-bearing, revenge, and worse. One rumor can spiral into many aveiros. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 239

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 238

22 Jun 2026 · 00:03:33

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Business Rumors Mislead When a non-Jew blames a Jewish competitor for a lost sale, don’t accept it. Dan l’kaf zechus applies in business too. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 238

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 237

18 Jun 2026 · 00:02:53

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Don’t Believe Him If a non-Jew claims another Jew informed on you, do not accept it. Believing him can trigger hatred, revenge, and even worse aveiros. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 237

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 236

15 Jun 2026 · 00:03:26

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Don’t Blame the Competitor Losing a contract is painful, but you may not assume a competitor caused it. Suspicion is not proof, even when circumstances look convincing. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 236

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 235

11 Jun 2026 · 00:02:39

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Why Trust the Gossiper? Why believe the speaker committing an aveira over the Jew with chazkas kashrus? Even helpful warnings allow caution, never full acceptance. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 235

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 234

8 Jun 2026 · 00:02:49

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Silence Isn’t Admission Rechilus remains forbidden whether spoken privately, publicly, or even in front of the accused. Silence does not prove guilt. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 234

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 233

4 Jun 2026 · 00:02:49

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Undo Accepted Rechilus Teshuva for accepting Rechilus begins by uprooting belief from your heart. Then come charatah, vidui, and kabalah for the future. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 233

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 232

1 Jun 2026 · 00:02:35

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Choose the Favorable Read Even when you must be choshesh, stay dan l’kaf zechus. Many hurtful-sounding comments may actually have a positive meaning. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 232

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 231

28 May 2026 · 00:02:25

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Don’t Go Looking Searching for negative talk guarantees pain. Protect your relationship with Hashem instead of chasing every rumor about yourself. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 231

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 230

25 May 2026 · 00:03:00

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Stop Chasing Gossip Don’t go asking what others say about you. That curiosity invites Rechilus, heartache, and many avoidable aveiros. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 230

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 229

21 May 2026 · 00:02:18

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Respect Despite Suspicion Even when you are choshesh, you must still treat the other Jew with full respect. Halacha allows self-protection, but never degrading or hurting him. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 229

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 228

18 May 2026 · 00:02:36

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Choshesh, Not Convinced Being choshesh means protecting yourself, not believing evil. You may not hate, take revenge, or withhold what another Jew is rightfully owed. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 228

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 227

14 May 2026 · 00:02:38

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Asking for Protection When real warning signs appear, a person may ask others what they’ve heard in order to guard himself. Still, he may only be choshesh, never accept. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 227

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 226

11 May 2026 · 00:03:04

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Mastering What We Hear Avraham Avinu teaches that a Jew can control not only speech, but hearing. We can listen carefully without accepting harmful words as truth. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 226

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 225

7 May 2026 · 00:03:05

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Listening Without Accepting A Jew must learn to hear a warning without accepting it as fact. You may protect yourself, but halacha forbids believing Rechilus outright. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 225

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 224

4 May 2026 · 00:02:45

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Don’t Let It In The first impression is powerful, so never accept Rechilus automatically. Train yourself to pause, question, and refuse belief until facts are clear. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 224

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 223

30 Apr 2026 · 00:02:31

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Accepting Is Even Worse Accepting Rechilus can be even more dangerous than speaking it. Once believed, it can unleash terrible harm, as seen in the tragedy of Nov. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 223

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 222

27 Apr 2026 · 00:03:14

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Teshuva for Rechilus Teshuva for Rechilus requires charatah, vidui, and kabalah al ha’asid. Because it is bein adam l’chaveiro, asking mechilah may also be necessary. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 222

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 221

23 Apr 2026 · 00:03:01

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Adding Fuel to Anger Even if someone already heard the original Lashon Hara, repeating it is still Rechilus. A second report deepens anger, strengthens belief, and causes more aveiros. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 221

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 220

20 Apr 2026 · 00:02:33

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Explaining What They Already Know Even when no new facts are shared, explaining a past wrong in a way that inflames anger is Rechilus. Halacha forbids turning pain into deeper resentment. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 219

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 219

6 Feb 2026 · 00:02:27

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Family Sensitivities Speaking about someone’s relatives is just as harmful. Words about a brother, parent, or child ignite deep pain and resentment—guard your speech at home too. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 218

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 218

4 Feb 2026 · 00:02:35

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Gossip in Conversation Even casual talk about others can turn into Rechilus. Conversations at simchas or in stores can easily cross into gossip—think before you share. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 217

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 217

2 Feb 2026 · 00:03:35

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The Cycle of Anger One person’s gossip fuels another’s reaction, creating a cycle of pain and hatred. The only way to stop it—pause, stay silent, and seek daas Torah. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 216

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 216

30 Jan 2026 · 00:03:05

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Truth Can Still Kill Even if every word is true, repeating it can cause pain, shame, or hatred. Words of “truth” used carelessly are spiritual weapons. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 215

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 215

28 Jan 2026 · 00:02:45

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Don’t Ruin Relationships Even public information may not be repeated if it causes anger or destroys partnerships. Preserving peace always outweighs curiosity or gossip. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 214

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 214

26 Jan 2026 · 00:02:17

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Heard by Three Isn’t Permission Even if gossip was spoken before three people, it’s still assur to repeat. Halacha never allows spreading Rechilus further—truth doesn’t make it mutar. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 213

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 213

23 Jan 2026 · 00:02:55

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Avak Rechilus: Subtle Gossip Even vague or ambiguous remarks—sarcastic tone, half-smiles, or unclear praise—can become Avak Rechilus. Words must be clear, kind, and free of hidden sting. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 212

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 212

21 Jan 2026 · 00:03:21

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Rechilus in the Digital Age Posting gossip or criticism online is still Rechilus—and far worse when spread to thousands. Think before you tap; your words can destroy lives. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 211

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 211

19 Jan 2026 · 00:02:46

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Triggering Old Wounds Even if nothing new is said, reviving old conflicts to gain favor is Rechilus. Stirring memories of past fights reawakens hatred and divides hearts. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 210

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 210

16 Jan 2026 · 00:02:31

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Hints That Hurt Even hinting at who spoke negatively about someone is Rechilus. Revealing through context, tone, or implication destroys trust just as much as words. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 209

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 209

14 Jan 2026 · 00:02:33

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Lie for the Sake of Peace When truth will spark hatred, one may lie to prevent Rechilus—but not swear. Shalom takes precedence over brutal honesty when guided by halacha. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 208

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 208

11 Jan 2026 · 00:02:52

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Strength in Silence Refusing to speak Rechilus when pressured—by friends, family, or superiors—is a kiddush Hashem. Resisting gossip protects both the victim and the listener. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 207

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 207

9 Jan 2026 · 00:03:08

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Pressure Is No Excuse Even under threat of job loss or embarrassment, one may not speak Rechilus. Losing money is better than losing integrity—speech has eternal weight. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 206

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 206

7 Jan 2026 · 00:02:36

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When They “Already Know” Even if the listener knows part of the story, adding details or confirming gossip is still Rechilus. Curiosity is no heter—silence preserves dignity. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 205

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 205

4 Jan 2026 · 00:02:28

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True Words, False Peace Even true information can be Rechilus if it breeds resentment. Whether uniting enemies or dividing friends, truth used wrongly destroys relationships. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 204

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 204

2 Jan 2026 · 00:02:20

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Unintended Hatred Even without intending harm, quoting someone to prove your point can cause hatred. Rechilus isn’t only in malice—it’s in careless speech that divides friends. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 203

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 203

31 Dec 2025 · 00:02:30

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The Essence of Rechilus Transferring one person’s words or deeds to another—even truthfully—creates resentment. Rechilus destroys peace and was among the sins that caused the Churban HaBayis. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 202

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 202

28 Dec 2025 · 00:02:31

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The Tragedy of Doeg Ha’adomi Doeg’s Rechilus against Ahimelech led to the massacre of Nov, the city of Kohanim. A single tale of gossip can bring destruction beyond imagination. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 201

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 201 (Hilchos Rechilus)

26 Dec 2025 · 00:02:42

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Beginning Hilchos Rechilus The Chafetz Chaim introduces Rechilus—revealing what one person said about another—as a severe aveira linked to bloodshed. It destroys lives, families, and communities. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 200

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 200

24 Dec 2025 · 00:02:50

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Silence or Truth? If asked “who did it,” one may only say “not me” when it’s truly a wrongdoing—and never name another. Higher souls accept blame to preserve peace. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 199

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 199

21 Dec 2025 · 00:02:22

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Revenge Is Not Toeles Retaliating because someone spoke against you is never allowed. Even believing the rumor is rechilus. True toeles uplifts—it never mirrors the sin it condemns. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 198

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 198

19 Dec 2025 · 00:01:56

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Think Before You Speak Before speaking Lashon Hara, pause. Review every halachic condition, examine your motives, and remember: words can heal—or destroy—depending on your care. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 197

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 197

17 Dec 2025 · 00:02:09

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Purity of Purpose Toeles depends entirely on intention. If not done l’shem shamayim, even truth becomes sin. Avoid unnecessary detail and never cause more harm than Beis Din would. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 196

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 196

14 Dec 2025 · 00:02:20

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Accuracy Defines Toeles Speaking l’toeles demands perfect accuracy—no exaggeration, no omissions, and no twisting of tone. Every word must be true, or the mitzvah turns into an aveira. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 195

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 195

12 Dec 2025 · 00:02:03

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See, But Understand First Even when witnessing wrongdoing, one must know halacha before judging. Misinterpreting actions without clarity turns truth into motzi shem ra—a lie in the guise of zeal. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 194

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 194

10 Dec 2025 · 00:02:17

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Reviewing the Seven Rules The Chafetz Chaim repeats the seven conditions of toeles—a reminder that emotion must never overrule halacha, and speech must remain carefully measured and pure. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 193

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 193

7 Dec 2025 · 00:02:48

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Toeles for the Future Even when past harm can’t be undone, preventing future embarrassment or loss is valid toeles—if shared only with those who can responsibly bring change. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 193

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 192

5 Dec 2025 · 00:02:51

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Don’t Condemn Communities Speaking badly about individuals is grave—but condemning entire groups or towns is far worse. Every Jew deserves dan l’kaf zechus—and humility before Hashem’s plan. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 191

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 191

3 Dec 2025 · 00:02:09

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Pure Intentions, Not Payback Even justified speech becomes forbidden when driven by hurt or revenge. Toeles demands sincerity—never satisfaction in another’s downfall. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 190

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 190

30 Nov 2025 · 00:01:49

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Between Man and God Lashon Hara l’toeles about personal aveiros is far more limited. Only repeated, deliberate public sin justifies speech—and even then, only under strict halachic caution. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 189

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 189

28 Nov 2025 · 00:01:42

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The Truthful Exception An Ish Emes—a person known for integrity—need not speak before three when rebuking l’toeles. His proven honesty carries its own credibility within halachic boundaries. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 188

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 188

26 Nov 2025 · 00:01:44

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When Silence Is Safer If speaking l’toeles could provoke revenge from a powerful wrongdoer, one may speak privately to the right authority instead of publicly before three. Halacha values safety and wisdom. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 187

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 187

23 Nov 2025 · 00:01:47

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Listening Without Accepting Even if words seem true, never believe Lashon Hara outright. Listen only to investigate and help—never to judge or internalize. Objective restraint protects truth and peace. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 186

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 186

21 Nov 2025 · 00:02:18

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Speaking Before Three When giving tochacha won’t help, Lashon Hara l’toeles must be said publicly—before three people—to show honesty, not slander. Truth and transparency guard against hidden motives. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 185

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 185

19 Nov 2025 · 00:02:50

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Preempting the Baal Lashon Hara When silencing a habitual gossip protects others from harm, it may be a mitzvah—even if the victim doesn’t yet know. Intent and method define whether it’s truly toeles. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 184

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 184

14 Nov 2025 · 00:02:21

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Preemptive Lashon Hara? You may warn others about a habitual speaker—if the victim already knows. Otherwise, you risk causing rechilus by revealing it. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 184

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 183

12 Nov 2025 · 00:02:34

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Don't Let Emotion Skew Halacha Lashon Hara spoken out of personal rage—even for a relative—violates the rules of toeles. Closeness requires more caution, not less. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 183

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 182

9 Nov 2025 · 00:02:18

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Not Everyone Needs to Know If the victim doesn’t yet know what happened, revealing it may be rechilus. Also, don’t speak to those who won’t care to change. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 182

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 181

7 Nov 2025 · 00:02:31

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Protecting Others Is Also Toeles Even if you can’t undo past damage, warning others—so they avoid harm or bad influences—is valid toeles, if all other rules are kept. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 181

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 180

5 Nov 2025 · 00:02:40

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Even if you act with permission now, becoming guilty of the same aveira later reveals your motives weren’t truly l’shem Shamayim. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 180

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 179

2 Nov 2025 · 00:01:51

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No Room for Hypocrisy You may not speak toeles if you’re guilty of the same aveira. Fix yourself first—then you can care about someone else’s growth. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 179

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 178

31 Oct 2025 · 00:02:13

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Don’t Destroy More Than You Fix The seventh rule warns: if your words will cause greater damage than the Beis Din would, it’s not toeles—it’s harm, and it’s assur. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 178

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 177

29 Oct 2025 · 00:01:57

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Only If There’s No Other Way If you can fix the issue another way, don’t speak Lashon Hara. The sixth rule of toeles requires minimizing harm wherever possible. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 177

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 176

26 Oct 2025 · 00:02:10

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Stick to the Facts You may not exaggerate. The fourth and fifth rules require accuracy and sincere kavana l’toeles—not revenge, drama, or self-righteousness. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 176

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 175

24 Oct 2025 · 00:02:23

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First, Talk to Them The third rule of toeles: try giving tochacha first. Lashon Hara isn’t permitted if direct, caring conversation can correct the problem. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 175

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 174

22 Oct 2025 · 00:02:45

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Looks Can Be Deceiving Even eyewitness accounts can mislead. The second rule of toeles reminds us: interpret with care before assuming an aveira occurred. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 174

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 173

19 Oct 2025 · 00:02:21

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Don’t Act on Rumors The first rule of toeles requires firsthand knowledge. Lashon Hara is only permitted if you saw it yourself or fully verified its truth. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 173

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 172

17 Oct 2025 · 00:02:28

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When Lashon Hara Helps If speaking will help a victim recover stolen money or damages, it may be l’toeles. But halacha requires strict conditions—good intent alone isn’t enough. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 172

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 171

15 Oct 2025 · 00:02:24

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Secrets Deserve Silence Even without the words “don’t tell,” private matters must remain private. Repeating secrets—harmless or not—is a violation of trust and halacha. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 171

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 170

12 Oct 2025 · 00:02:29

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Teach Children Early Children copy what they see. If parents reject Lashon Hara clearly and consistently, kids absorb that as the norm—and carry it for life. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 170

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 169

10 Oct 2025 · 00:02:11

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Trapped? Don’t Be Mekabel If you can’t speak up or leave, protect yourself: block out the Lashon Hara or focus elsewhere. But never accept it in your heart. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 169

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 168

8 Oct 2025 · 00:02:22

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Speak Up or Walk Away If rebuke fails, distance yourself from those who harm with words. And when stuck in Lashon Hara situations, steer the conversation away—subtly but firmly. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 168

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 167

5 Oct 2025 · 00:02:33

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Avoid Lashon Hara Zones Living near or sitting beside habitual speakers of Lashon Hara is assur. Protect your soul—your spiritual health must come first. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 167

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 166

3 Oct 2025 · 00:02:20

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Praise Can Attract Trouble Highlighting someone’s generosity can lead to unfair pressure, jealousy, or harm. Even praise, when misunderstood, may turn into Avak Lashon Hara. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 166

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 165

1 Oct 2025 · 00:02:18

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Public Praise Needs Caution Praising someone in front of a crowd is risky—unless he’s universally respected or unknown to the audience. Otherwise, criticism often follows. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 165

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 164

28 Sep 2025 · 00:02:08

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Too Much Praise Is Dangerous Even sincere compliments can invite criticism. Avoid excessive praise in public—people may feel the need to “balance” the conversation with damaging words. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 164

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 163

26 Sep 2025 · 00:02:27

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When Praise Becomes Harm Implying something negative or praising someone in front of enemies often triggers Lashon Hara. If there's any risk of backlash, don’t say it—even if it sounds positive. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 163

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 162

24 Sep 2025 · 00:02:14

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The Subtle Danger of Avak Avak Lashon Hara—the “dust” of gossip—can seem harmless but causes real damage. It’s subtle, common, and easily overlooked. Awareness is the first defense. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 162

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 161

21 Sep 2025 · 00:02:26

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Rebuke with Respect Even adult children must show kavod when correcting parents. Suggest gently, avoid confrontation, and model values quietly when necessary. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 161

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 160

19 Sep 2025 · 00:02:19

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Teach By Example Parents must model that Lashon Hara is unacceptable. Even when choshesh, never accept harmful words as truth—and speak up gently when necessary. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 160

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 159

17 Sep 2025 · 00:01:53

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Would You Accept This About You? Unless someone is a public rasha, we may not accept Lashon Hara—about neighbors, friends, or even enemies. Respect others as you’d want to be respected. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 159

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 158

14 Sep 2025 · 00:02:13

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Sharp Insults Aren’t Smart Using clever or sarcastic remarks to gain approval at another’s expense is Lashon Hara, leitzanus, and ona’as devarim. Torah has no room for “funny and cruel.” Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 158

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 157

11 Sep 2025 · 00:01:59

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The Sin of Informing Reporting a fellow Jew to authorities—even with true information—falls under malshinus, one of the gravest aveiros. Always consult a Rav before taking such steps. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 157

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 156

10 Sep 2025 · 00:02:09

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Don’t Speak to Non-Jews Lashon Hara to a non-Jew can damage far more than just reputations. It harms communities, violates halacha, and desecrates Hashem’s name. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 156

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 155

7 Sep 2025 · 00:02:27

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Tochacha or Talk? If you’re truly seeking tochacha, why not give it yourself? Don’t use others as messengers unless they’re better suited—with care and humility. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 155

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 154

5 Sep 2025 · 00:02:37

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Not an Excuse for Gossip Even when warning family, you must stay focused on protection—not storytelling. Spreading general neighborhood gossip under the guise of “toeles” is still Lashon Hara. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 154

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 153

3 Sep 2025 · 00:02:38

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Protecting Your Family from Harm You may speak with family to warn them of dangerous influences—but only to protect, not to shame. Avoid exaggeration and don’t present rumor as fact. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 153

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 152

31 Aug 2025 · 00:01:27

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Speaking About the Deceased Lashon Hara remains assur even after death. Slandering a niftar, especially a talmid chacham or his Torah, incurs serious consequences, including nidui. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 152

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 151

29 Aug 2025 · 00:02:17

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No Shortcut to Shalom Even when speaking Lashon Hara seems to help end conflict, it’s only permitted as a last resort—with firsthand knowledge and no alternative path to peace. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 151

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 150

27 Aug 2025 · 00:02:12

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When Fighting Justifies Speech Lashon Hara about a ba’al machlokes may be allowed to prevent damage—but only with clear intent, clarity on who is at fault, and pure motives. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 150

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 149

24 Aug 2025 · 00:02:21

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Known Reshaim, Not Suspicions If someone publicly violates severe aveiros with no excuse, Lashon Hara may be allowed. But misuse of this heter is dangerous and deeply discouraged. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 149

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 148

22 Aug 2025 · 00:02:06

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Certainty Required for Apikorsus Even when halacha permits Lashon Hara about an Apikores, it must be based on firsthand knowledge or overwhelming communal consensus—not rumors or assumptions. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 148

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 147

20 Aug 2025 · 00:02:25

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Outside the Boundary of Am Yisrael The halachos of Lashon Hara don’t apply to someone who openly rejects Torah fundamentals. But one must be 100% sure before applying this grave label. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 147

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 146

17 Aug 2025 · 00:02:47

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Respecting Torah’s Representatives Speaking Lashon Hara about a talmid chacham is not just personal—it’s an affront to Torah itself. Disrespecting leaders can unravel entire communities. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 146

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 145

15 Aug 2025 · 00:02:44

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Lashon Hara About Children Criticizing children—especially when not your own—can deeply harm them. Even when rebuke is needed, speak only with care, truth, and clear toeles. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 145

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 144

13 Aug 2025 · 00:02:43

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Venting About a Spouse Speaking negatively about a spouse to family can destroy multiple relationships. Unless it's for true toeles, even venting can cross the line into Lashon Hara. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 143

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 143

10 Aug 2025 · 00:02:43

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No Excuses for Family Gossip Lashon Hara remains assur even when spoken about close relatives. Love doesn’t justify gossip—true care means speaking directly, not behind someone’s back. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 143

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 142

8 Aug 2025 · 00:02:49

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Don’t Act on Accusation Alone Even community leaders must not act on mere suspicion or one-sided claims. Halacha demands real evidence—not emotion or instinct—before taking serious steps. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 142

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 141

6 Aug 2025 · 00:01:57

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Can Beis Din Rely on Hints? In rare cases, Beis Din may act on devarim hanikarim, but only after thorough investigation. Regular individuals should never rely on such signs to take action. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 141

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 140

3 Aug 2025 · 00:02:31

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Believing ≠ Acting Even when belief is halachically permitted, you may not spread the information, shame the person, or cause financial harm. Caution does not equal permission to harm. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 140

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 139

1 Aug 2025 · 00:01:55

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Clear Evidence or Just Suspicion? Devarim hanikarim must be unmistakable, direct, and witnessed yourself. Vague impressions or secondhand reports are not enough to justify belief. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 139

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 138

30 Jul 2025 · 00:02:32

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Signs That Confirm a Story If you see external behavior—devarim hanikarim—that seems to confirm Lashon Hara, belief is only allowed when judgment l’kaf zechus is impossible. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 138

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 137

27 Jul 2025 · 00:02:32

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Lashon Hara Told Casually If someone mentions Lashon Hara lefitumo—incidentally during another story—it still cannot be believed. Even unintentional slander isn’t grounds for judgment or harm. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 137

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 136

25 Jul 2025 · 00:02:25

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Belief Doesn’t Mean Broadcast Even if you're allowed to believe someone sinned—when all strict halachic conditions are met—you still may not publicize it. Distancing is allowed; gossip is not. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 136

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 135

23 Jul 2025 · 00:01:56

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You’re Causing Him to Sin Showing interest in Lashon Hara causes the speaker to sin more—and violates lifnei iver. Even silent curiosity encourages spiritual harm. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 135

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 134

22 Jul 2025 · 00:02:12

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When a Rav May Believe A Rav may believe trustworthy testimony about a known aveirah, but not personal criticisms or family gossip. Even credibility has limits in Lashon Hara. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 134

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 133

18 Jul 2025 · 00:02:18

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Can You Trust the Trustworthy? Even someone famously honest cannot be believed if they speak Lashon Hara—unless you are a Rav with halachic responsibility and strict conditions are met. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 133

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 132

16 Jul 2025 · 00:02:11

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He Admits It—Together With Someone Else If someone confesses to an aveira and implicates another person in the same sentence, you're only allowed to believe what he says about himself—not the other. Even shared guilt doesn’t justify belief in Lashon Hara. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 132

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 131

13 Jul 2025 · 00:01:54

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Exceptions for Known Resha’im Lashon Hara may only be believed about someone who is a known public rasha—but only after confirmed facts establish their status beyond doubt. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 131

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 130

11 Jul 2025 · 00:02:09

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Don't Trust the Rumors Even repeated, vague rumors carry no weight in halacha. In a world of fake news and viral lies, we must be even more vigilant before believing anything harmful. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 130

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 129

9 Jul 2025 · 00:02:20

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Two Witnesses? Still Lashon Hara Even if two people testify to the same claim, if it’s not in Beis Din, it’s still Lashon Hara. Reputation and halacha—not hearsay—define credibility. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights! Daily Chafetz Chaim Day 130 Scheduled:

Ep. 129

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 128

6 Jul 2025 · 00:02:17

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Even the Rav Stayed Silent A Rav once overheard Lashon Hara about himself—and said nothing. Shock, humility, or calculation might silence a victim, but it’s no license to believe gossip. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 128

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 127

4 Jul 2025 · 00:02:05

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Azus Isn’t Proof When someone confidently slanders another—even in front of them—it doesn’t mean it’s true. Silence from the victim isn’t admission; never confuse chutzpah with credibility. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 127

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 126

2 Jul 2025 · 00:01:55

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Public Doesn’t Mean Proven Even if Lashon Hara is widely publicized or shared online, you still may not believe it. Truth isn’t determined by volume or visibility—only by proper investigation. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 126

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 125

29 Jun 2025 · 00:02:12

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Undoing the Damage of Belief If you already accepted Lashon Hara, do teshuva—reject it in your heart, reflect on alternate explanations, and work to uproot belief from within. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 125

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 124

27 Jun 2025 · 00:02:49

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The Danger of Hurting the Needy Even if you suspect a collector is dishonest, halacha demands continued support until proper investigation. Rumors don’t cancel chezkas oni. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 124

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 123

25 Jun 2025 · 00:02:03

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Caution Without Harm Being choyshesh doesn’t permit harming the person—no insults, no withholding owed money, and no public shaming. It’s for self-protection only. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 123

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 122

22 Jun 2025 · 00:02:29

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Fifty Rumors Don’t Equal Fact Widespread rumors—even from many people—don’t justify labeling someone a rasha. Only Beis Din can establish such a verdict. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 122

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 121

20 Jun 2025 · 00:02:26

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Be Wary, Not Certain When Lashon Hara affects your safety or future, you may be choyshesh—cautious—but not mekabel. Protection is allowed; judgment is not. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 121

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 120

18 Jun 2025 · 00:02:20

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The Past Is Off Limits Lashon Hara about someone’s past or ancestors—no matter how true—is still forbidden. Teshuva demands respect for who a person is now. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 120

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 119

15 Jun 2025 · 00:01:59

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Disagreement Doesn’t Permit Disrespect Even after verifying an error in Beis Din, you may not slander its members. Corrective steps must follow halacha—not public humiliation. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 119

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 118

13 Jun 2025 · 00:02:53

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Doubting a Din Is Not a Heter Even if a Dayan’s ruling seems mistaken, degrading Talmidei Chachamim is never justified. Respect demands restraint, even when questioning halachic outcomes. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 118

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 117

10 Jun 2025 · 00:02:53

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Respecting Torah Authority Speaking negatively about Dayanim—even if you think they ruled wrongly—is forbidden. We must trust that Hashem ensures justice, and always be dan Talmidei Chachamim l’kaf zechus. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 117

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 116

8 Jun 2025 · 00:02:05

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Judge Favorably, Even If True Even if a story is factually accurate, we must still be dan l’kaf zechus. Context matters—and assuming the worst violates a mitzvas asei of the Torah. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 116

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 115

6 Jun 2025 · 00:01:58

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Don't Sit With Them Choosing to sit with known gossipers makes you part of their aveirah, even if you stay silent. The Torah warns us: avoid the company of scoffers. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 115

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 114

4 Jun 2025 · 00:02:40

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Three Tools for Resistance Reject the words in your heart, feel regret about hearing them, and avoid showing any approval. Even a frown can send a message—and protect your neshamah. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 114

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 113

1 Jun 2025 · 00:02:43

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When You’re Caught in It If you’re surrounded by people speaking Lashon Hara, discreetly showing disapproval or mentally rejecting the words can still count as spiritual resistance—even without speech. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 113

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 112

30 May 2025 · 00:02:42

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Group Dynamics and Strategy When facing a group with a dominant speaker of Lashon Hara, sometimes the best move is to wait and later correct the others—quietly, thoughtfully, and without confrontation. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 112

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 111

28 May 2025 · 00:02:53

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Can You Handle the Truth? Even when permitted to listen, you must be confident you won’t accept what you hear. If you know you’ll believe it, even a justified listening becomes assur. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 111

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 110

25 May 2025 · 00:02:46

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Listening to Make Peace If your sincere goal is shalom, listening to Lashon Hara may be allowed—if you actively seek to defend the subject or calm the speaker. Intention makes all the difference. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 110

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 109

23 May 2025 · 00:02:23

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Protecting Others Without Accepting You may listen to Lashon Hara to protect someone else, but vague excuses like “maybe one day I’ll need it” are not a heter. Every word must have real purpose. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 109

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 108

21 May 2025 · 00:02:36

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When Listening Is Allowed Listening to Lashon Hara is only permitted when done letoeles, such as evaluating a potential business partner or shidduch—with zero acceptance and full skepticism. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 108

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 107

18 May 2025 · 00:02:46

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Worse Than Speaking It The Chafetz Chaim teaches that accepting Lashon Hara is often worse than saying it. Belief alone—without a word—is enough to bring tragic consequences, as seen in Tanach. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 107

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 106

16 May 2025 · 00:02:25

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Believing Lashon Hara is Forbidden Accepting Lashon Hara as truth is a de'oraisa violation—even if it’s technically true. Kabbalas Lashon Hara destroys achdus and undermines the fabric of Klal Yisrael. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 106

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 105

14 May 2025 · 00:02:12

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Undoing Accepted Lashon Hara If one has already accepted Lashon Hara as truth, teshuva requires working to uproot that belief. The best solution? Avoid believing it in the first place. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 105

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 104

11 May 2025 · 00:02:28

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Lashon Hara About Property Speaking negatively about someone’s home, business, or merchandise is Lashon Hara, as it causes financial harm. When multiple people spread such talk, the damage multiplies. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 104

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 103

9 May 2025 · 00:02:10

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Words Aren't Just Words Saying "he learns three hours" can be praise for one person and criticism for another. Lashon Hara depends not only on what is said, but how it is perceived. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 103

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 102

7 May 2025 · 00:02:08

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How Perspective Changes Speech Spending $500 on Shabbos can be praise or criticism depending on financial status. The same applies to tzedakah. Identical words can have drastically different meanings. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 102

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 101

4 May 2025 · 00:02:16

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Context Matters in Speech The same statement can be Lashon Hara or praise depending on the context. A wealthy man learning three hours a day may be criticized, while a working man doing the same is praised. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 101

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 100!

2 May 2025 · 00:02:16

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Judging People by Their Wealth Talking about someone's wealth—whether much or little—can lead to problems in business, shidduchim, and personal relationships. A person's worth is far more than their bank account. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 100

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 99

30 Apr 2025 · 00:01:55

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Speaking About Strength and Weakness Discussing a person's physical strength or health can impact their job, shidduchim, and reputation. Even factual statements can cause harm and require careful speech. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 99

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 98

27 Apr 2025 · 00:02:39

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The Hidden Harm of Criticism Belittling a Rav’s knowledge or a son-in-law’s status can damage relationships and reputations. Even true statements can be destructive when spoken without a clear toeles. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 98

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 97

25 Apr 2025 · 00:02:24

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The Danger of Speaking About Rabbanim Lashon Hara about a Rav can destroy his reputation, diminish his ability to lead, and harm an entire community. Even if true, such speech requires extreme caution. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 97

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 96

23 Apr 2025 · 00:02:27

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Easing Conflict with Words In cases of machlokes, sometimes reframing someone's words as a foolish mistake rather than intentional harm can prevent hatred. If it truly reduces conflict, such speech may be permitted. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 96

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 95

20 Apr 2025 · 00:02:52

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The Hidden Danger in Gossip Lashon Hara about a person’s midos is especially dangerous—it’s harder to refute and more readily accepted. Since no one can "prove" character traits wrong, they spread easily and cause harm. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 95

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 94

18 Apr 2025 · 00:01:57

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Would You Want It Said About You? Lashon Hara damages self-esteem and causes unnecessary anxiety. Before speaking about others, ask yourself: Would I want people saying this about me? If not, remain silent. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 94

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 93

16 Apr 2025 · 00:02:42

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One Word Can Destroy a Life A single negative remark about a person’s intelligence can ruin shidduchim, business deals, or even a rav’s parnassah. We often underestimate the damage our words can cause. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 93

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 92

13 Apr 2025 · 00:02:27

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Speaking About Personality Traits Comments about someone’s personality—whether they are too quiet, too loud, or lacking intelligence—can easily turn into Lashon Hara or even Motzi Shem Ra. Choose words carefully. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 92

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 91

11 Apr 2025 · 00:02:35

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The Danger of Judging Intelligence Lashon Hara isn't just about actions—it includes speaking negatively about someone’s intelligence, skills, or social status. Every person has strengths and weaknesses; who are we to judge? Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 91

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 90

9 Apr 2025 · 00:02:26

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Hearing vs. Seeing the Truth Even if you saw someone sin, Lashon Hara is forbidden without proper justification. How much more so if you only heard about it! Avoid spreading rumors and assumptions. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 90

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 89

6 Apr 2025 · 00:02:33

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The Hidden Revenge in Speech Even if one follows all conditions of toeles, speaking Lashon Hara out of personal satisfaction or revenge remains forbidden. We must examine our intentions before discussing others. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 89

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 88

4 Apr 2025 · 00:02:33

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Lashon Hara and Personal Grudges Speaking Lashon Hara is even worse when it stems from personal revenge. Holding a grudge or spreading negativity about someone who wronged you violates multiple issurim. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 88

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 87

2 Apr 2025 · 00:02:28

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Judging Others Favorably Speaking Lashon Hara about someone who fails in bein adam l’chaveiro is still forbidden, even if it’s true. Unless there’s a toeles, we must give the benefit of the doubt and refrain from gossip. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 87

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 86

30 Mar 2025 · 00:02:33

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The Power of Ben Adam L’Chaveiro The Chafetz Chaim emphasizes that mitzvos bein adam l’chaveiro are of utmost importance—sometimes even more than bein adam l’Makom. Lashon Hara weakens our connection to others and must be avoided. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 86

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 85

28 Mar 2025 · 00:02:45

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The Cost of Speaking Lashon Hara can destroy lives and futures. True Teshuva requires admitting fault to the harmed party, no matter the difficulty. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 85

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 84

26 Mar 2025 · 00:02:17

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Teshuva for Words Unheard When Lashon Hara doesn’t cause harm, Teshuva focuses on Hashem. But when it does, the stakes—and requirements—are much higher. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 84

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 83

23 Mar 2025 · 00:02:24

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Nostalgia or Lashon Hara? Reconnecting with old friends often leads to reminiscing—but beware. Casual conversations can easily stray into forbidden speech. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 83

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 82

21 Mar 2025 · 00:02:26

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Matching Expectations in Shidduchim Misaligned standards can mislead. Tailor shidduch answers to the questioner’s perspective to ensure accurate and meaningful discussions. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 82

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 81

19 Mar 2025 · 00:02:22

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Accuracy in Shidduch Discussions Exaggerations harm more than they help. Learn why honest and precise questions uphold both halacha and trust. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 81

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 80

16 Mar 2025 · 00:02:28

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Shidduch Questions: Protect or Harm? When asking shidduch questions, be clear and avoid gossip. Intent and precision are key to maintaining dignity and accuracy. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 80

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 79

14 Mar 2025 · 00:02:34

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Teaching Children About Middos Protecting kids from bad influences is vital. Learn how to guide them without fostering resentment or generalizations. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 79

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 78

12 Mar 2025 · 00:02:46

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The Mitzvah of Self-Improvement Bad middos often stem from ignorance, not defiance. A kind word can inspire growth more effectively than criticism. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 78

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 77

9 Mar 2025 · 00:02:29

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Flawed Yet Growing When noticing bad middos, remember: growth takes time. Judging someone mid-journey often misrepresents their true efforts. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 77

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 76

7 Mar 2025 · 00:02:14

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When Beis Din Is Challenged Publicly defying Beis Dn permits public rebuke. Explore why preserving Torah authority allows exceptions to typical Lashon Hara restrictions. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 76

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 75

5 Mar 2025 · 00:02:20

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Speaking Carefully About Sinners Even when exposing sinners, exaggeration is forbidden. Learn how strict limits protect dignity, even in difficult situations. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 75

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 74

3 Mar 2025 · 00:02:32

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Balancing Protection With Teshuva While avoiding bad influences is crucial, finding ways to help others do teshuva must remain part of our communal responsibility. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 74

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 73

28 Feb 2025 · 00:02:32

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Identifying Harmful Influences For persistent sinners who refuse rebuke, Lashon Hara can protect others from negative influence—but only with careful limits. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 73

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 72

26 Feb 2025 · 00:03:19

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When Silence Is Golden Even with two witnesses, discretion matters. Learn when restraint can preserve dignity and encourage personal teshuva. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 72

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 71

23 Feb 2025 · 00:03:43

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When Hate Has a Place Can you hate an unrepentant sinner? The Chafetz Chaim explores the boundaries of tochecha and the path back to love through teshuva. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 71

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 70

21 Feb 2025 · 00:02:36

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The Role of a Rav A strong connection with a Rav safeguards against missteps. Discover why having spiritual guidance is crucial for correction and growth. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 70

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 69

19 Feb 2025 · 00:02:27

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The Limits of a Single Witness When you’re the only one who saw an aveira, how can you act constructively without causing harm or committing Lashon Hara? Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 69

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18 Feb 2025 · 00:00:59

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COMING SOON: The battle for your eyes is real. The power to choose is yours. https://realjudaism.org/ShemirasEinayim Shemiras Einayim with Rabbi Ari Klapper returns for Series 2 – diving deeper than ever into the raw challenges of guarding your eyes in today's digital age. No apologetics. No judgment. Just honest, practical wisdom for real-life struggles. From smartphones to street encounters. From internal battles to external pressures. We're tackling the questions you're afraid to ask and the daily tests you face. Rabbi Klapper brings clarity, understanding, and practical tools to help you navigate these challenges while maintaining your dignity and spiritual growth. This isn't just another mussar series. This is your guide to building real strength and finding true fulfillment in a world of constant visual temptation. New episodes drop every two weeks starting 19th Feb 2025. Real struggles. Real solutions. Real growth. Real Judaism. Shemiras Einayim Series 2 – Because your battle matters. Find the Episodes wherever you get your podcasts https://open.spotify.com/show/548Vqsw1GzzAGKjmKYi0yc?si=c5e51bbe2d964c3a https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shmiras-einayim/id1784634481 https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLiZU2rL9HnBW2qVNZRClAes4STqsKB4qS

Ep. 68

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 68

16 Feb 2025 · 00:02:18

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Helping Those Who Don’t Want Help Even the willfully defiant deserve correction. Learn how to involve the right people to address persistent aveiros effectively. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 67

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 67

14 Feb 2025 · 00:02:21

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Protecting Others Without Gossip When someone’s sin could harm others, carefully share details only to prevent further aveiros. Balance responsibility with sensitivity. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 66

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 66

12 Feb 2025 · 00:03:14

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Correct With Love, Not Gossip When someone visibly sins, rushing to spread the story only worsens the situation. Compassionate tochacha can help them return. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 65

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 65

9 Feb 2025 · 00:02:22

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Finding the Benefit of the Doubt When a mitzvah observer falters, consider: could ignorance or misunderstanding explain their actions? Why Dan L’chaf Zechus protects us all. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 64

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 64

7 Feb 2025 · 00:01:58

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Common Faults, Same Halacha Even widely accepted failings like neglecting Torah study or Shabbos spending can’t justify Lashon Hara. Learn why these failings still demand discretion. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 63

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 63

5 Feb 2025 · 00:03:24

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The Harmful Power of Words Speaking hurtful truths—like family sins or past mistakes—destroys reputations. Learn why even accurate Lashon Hara is forbidden. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 62

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 62

2 Feb 2025 · 00:02:39

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Think Before You Speak Even when judging harshly seems justified, spreading the story can cause harm. If unsure, say nothing and seek guidance. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 61

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 61

31 Jan 2025 · 00:02:18

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When the Average Jew Slips What about judging a regular person who falls? We explore why we owe them the same benefit of the doubt we expect ourselves. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 60

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 60

29 Jan 2025 · 00:02:45

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Judging Others Favorably: A Story Even when something looks wrong, the mitzvah of Dan L’chaf Zechus demands we withhold judgment—especially for a Yirei Shamayim. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 59

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 59

26 Jan 2025 · 00:02:06

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Do Intentions Matter? Even if no one believes your Lashon Hara, it still harms your relationship with Hashem. Teshuva is always necessary. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 58

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 58

24 Jan 2025 · 00:02:39

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Clever Words, Hidden Damage Implying negativity without names still counts as Lashon Hara. Learn how subtlety doesn’t excuse hurtful words. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 57

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 57

22 Jan 2025 · 00:02:08

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Jokes That Hurt “Just kidding” doesn’t excuse Lashon Hara. Jokes at others’ expense break trust and damage relationships—even if they seem harmless. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 56

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 56

19 Jan 2025 · 00:02:35

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Tone Matters: Avak Lashon Hara Sarcasm and tone can turn neutral words into poison. Discover how body language and intent redefine what we say. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 55

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 55

17 Jan 2025 · 00:02:13

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Private Slander, Public Shame Speaking Lashon Hara in private or public carries severe consequences. Why embarrassing others erases Olam Haba. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 54

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 54

15 Jan 2025 · 00:02:37

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Protecting Secrets Sharing someone’s secret—even unspoken—violates trust. Sensitivity to privacy reflects true v’ahavta l’rei’acha kamocha . Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 53

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 53

12 Jan 2025 · 00:02:39

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Criticizing Public Speakers Rebuking a speaker publicly can harm reputations and communities. Learn how to address concerns without falling into Lashon Hara. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 52

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 52

10 Jan 2025 · 00:02:50

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Group Decisions: United We Stand Once decisions are made in committees, even dissenters must unify. Complaining divides communities and breeds distrust in leadership. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 51

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 51

8 Jan 2025 · 00:02:12

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Who Are You Talking To? Sharing information, even with a heter, depends on trust. What happens when listeners twist, exaggerate, or spread your words further? Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 50

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 50

5 Jan 2025 · 00:02:41

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Growth After Mistakes What if someone changed? The Chafetz Chaim warns against dredging up past wrongs. Teshuva means letting the past truly remain the past. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 49

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 49

3 Jan 2025 · 00:02:25

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Guarding Secrets: A Matter of Respect Sharing a secret, even non-damaging, breaches trust and halacha. Explore the responsibility to respect others' privacy in every situation. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 48

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 48

1 Jan 2025 · 00:03:16

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Spreading Secrets: Where Do We Draw the Line? Even when shared in public, Lashon Hara cannot spread beyond those who first heard it. Understand the severe limits of this heter. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 47

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 47

29 Dec 2024 · 00:02:58

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The Risky Reality of Public Speech Even when heard by three, Lashon Hara remains forbidden. When can repeating information become a slippery slope to sin? Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 46

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 46

27 Dec 2024 · 00:02:32

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Intent and Interpretation: A Fine Line What happens when a seemingly neutral statement can be understood as either praise or insult? Learn the delicate halachos of speech. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 45

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 45

25 Dec 2024 · 00:02:30

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Understanding the Rule of Three. Can speaking in front of three people ever lessen the severity of Lashon Hara? The Chafetz Chaim unpacks this complex and often misunderstood concept. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 44

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 44

22 Dec 2024 · 00:02:49

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The Modern Danger of Words From texts to tweets, Lashon Hara spreads faster than ever. Learn why writing it is as serious as speaking it. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 40

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 43

20 Dec 2024 · 00:03:32

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Choosing Embarrassment Over Sin The Chafetz Chaim teaches that being perceived as foolish in this world is better than a moment of wrongdoing in the next. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 42

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 42

18 Dec 2024 · 00:02:32

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Navigating Pressure: Guarding Our Words How do we stand firm against pressure to speak Lashon Hara—even when it risks relationships, jobs, or financial security? Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

Ep. 41

Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 41

15 Dec 2024 · 00:01:48

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Day 41 Today's lesson highlights the gravity of Lashon Hara, which the Chafetz Chaim teaches is worse than the gravest sins. Even under pressure, guarding our words is non-negotiable—because our speech shapes our world. This daily lesson is presented by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, as part of the Real Judaism series. You can find more content like this at RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share so you never miss a chance to deepen your understanding of Torah and Jewish living! We know it’s been a while since our last episode, and we truly appreciate your patience. Behind the scenes, we’ve been working hard on some exciting changes to bring you even better content. Thank you for sticking with us—we’re thrilled to be back and can’t wait to continue sharing timeless Torah wisdom with you! The podcast Bezrat Hashem will be released 2 or 3 times a week

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